A woman who is pregnant is tagged by society with "mother". The man who leaves is not. Legally yes, but socially not.

The mixer who abandoned her child is "a mother who abandoned her child". The father is not even in the picture.

I would live to live in a world where the rational words cubby, but culture, history, religion is still very strong.

And I live in France, love of the most free countries in the world in this regard.