>> Don’t most orgs that are deep enough to run custom cuda kernels have dedicated engineers for this stuff. I can’t imagine a person who can write raw cuda not being able to handle things more difficult than pip install.

This seems to be fairly common problem with software. The people who create software regularly deal with complex tool chains, dependency management, configuration files, and so on. As a result they think that if a solutions "exists" everything is fine. Need to edit a config file for your particular setup? No problem. The thing is, I have been programming stuff for decades and I really hate having to do that stuff and will avoid tools that make me do it. I have my own problems to solve, and don't want to deal with figuring out tools no matter how "simple" the author thinks that is to do.

A huge part of the reason commercial software exists today is probably because open source projects don't take things to this extreme. I look at some things that qualify as products and think they're really simplistic, but they take care of some minutia that regular people are will to pay so they don't have to learn or deal with it. The same can be true for developers and ML researchers or whatever.